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You’ve probably heard the old saying.

"Shirtless to shirtless in three generations."

The British say "clogs to clogs." The Japanese say "rice paddies to rice paddies."

It’s the same story everywhere. The first generation builds the wealth. The second generation maintains it (or spends a bit too much). The third generation blows the rest and goes back to zero.

It sounds like a fable, but the data is brutal.

A 20-year study found that 90% of wealthy families lose their fortune by the third generation.

That isn't a fluke. It's a benchmark.

We are staring down the barrel of the largest wealth transfer in history—$84 trillion moving from Boomers to the next generation. And most of it is going to evaporate.

Why?

It’s not because of the estate tax. It’s not because of bad stock picks.

It’s because the "standard" estate plan is broken. It focuses on the money, not the human who gets the money.

We looked at the playbook used by the families who actually stay rich for 100+ years. It’s not what you’d expect.

Here is the unvarnished truth about how to stop the clock on the 3-generation curse.

The Math of Failure Most people think wealth is lost linearly. It’s not. It dilutes. If you have $100 million and three kids, and they have three kids, that fortune gets divided by nine before anyone spends a dime. We break down the "Velocity of Dissipation" and the "Sudden Wealth Syndrome" that causes heirs to burn through cash in 18 months. [Read Section 1: The Erosion of Legacy]

Stop Raising "Trust Fund Babies" The biggest risk to your money isn’t the IRS. It’s your kids. If you hand over a massive check without a job description, you ruin them. We look at the "Skin in the Game" philosophy—where heirs have to match their inheritance with earned income or present business plans like they’re pitching a VC. Shift the mindset from "Owner" to "Steward." [Read Section 2: Preparing the Heirs]

The 100-Year Fortress Old trusts die after 90 years. New ones last forever. We explain the "Dynasty Trust" and why families are moving their money to states like South Dakota and Nevada. This isn't just paperwork; it’s about compounding tax-free for a century. Plus, the power of "No"—why a trustee who can say no is more valuable than one who says yes. [Read Section 3: The Structural Fortress]

Freezing the IRS Out If your assets grow at 10% a year, your tax bill doubles every seven years. Unless you freeze it. We break down the "Estate Freeze"—how to lock in the value of your business today so all future growth goes to your family tax-free. It’s complicated, but the math is undeniable. [Read Section 4: Advanced Tax Efficiency]

The "Floating Spouse" Clause Divorce is a wealth killer. But you can't just rely on a prenup. We found a clause called the "Floating Spouse." It defines a beneficiary not by name, but by status. If your heir gets divorced, the ex-spouse automatically drops out. If they remarry, the new spouse floats in. It’s ruthless, but effective. [Read Section 5: Asset Protection & Modern Assets]

The Long Game Do you really need a Family Office? Probably not the way you think. We look at the "Build vs. Rent" model. You can get institutional-grade management for a fraction of the cost using a Virtual Family Office. Plus, why the "Letter of Wishes" might be more important than the legal trust deed. [Read Section 6: Execution and Evolution]

This isn't just for the ultra-wealthy. It’s for anyone who wants their life's work to last longer than a single lifetime.

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Table of Contents

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I. The Erosion of Legacy – Defining the "Shirtless to Shirtless" Phenomenon

1.1 The Three-Generation Curse: Anatomy of a Statistical Inevitability

• The 90% Failure Rate

• Global Variations of the Adage

• The Velocity of Dissipation: The Arithmetic of Dilution

1.2 The Great Wealth Transfer: A $84 Trillion Inflection Point

• Baby Boomers to Gen Z

• The "Sudden Wealth" Risk

• Macroeconomic Implications

1.3 The Four Pillars of Failure: Why Traditional Planning Falls Short

• The Tax Trap

• The "Trust Fund Baby" Syndrome

• Lack of Communication

• Governance Deficit

1.4 Redefining Success: From "Ownership" to "Stewardship"

• The Mindset Shift

• The Tri-Capital Model: Fuel, Engine, Transmission

• Steward's Checklist

• The Modern Playbook Thesis

II. The Human Element – Preparing the Heirs and the Family

2.1 Financial Literacy as a Prerequisite for Inheritance

• Curriculum for Wealth

• The "Skin in the Game" Philosophy

• Failure as a Teacher

2.2 Governance Structures: The Family Constitution

• Drafting the Rules of the Road

• The Family Council

• Annual Family Assemblies

• Governance Checklist for Families

2.3 Addressing Family Dynamics and Conflict Resolution

• The "Fair vs. Equal" Dilemma

• Pre-empting Litigation

• Blended Families and Complex Lineages

2.4 The Psychological Impact of Wealth: Inoculating Against Affluenza

• Purpose over Pleasure

• Privacy and Security

• Professional Guidance

• Conclusion

III. The Structural Fortress – Trust Mechanics and Design

3.1 The Dynasty Trust: Breaking the Rule Against Perpetuities

• Duration Matters: The Race to the Top

• Compound Growth Engine

• Caveats and Implementation

• Trust Duration Decision Matrix

• Generation-Skipping Transfer (GST) Tax

3.2 Discretionary vs. Mandatory Distributions: The Power of "No"

• The HEMS Standard

• Incentive Trusts

• The Spendthrift Clause

• Distribution Design Checklist

3.3 The Trustee Dilemma: Corporate vs. Individual vs. Private Trust Companies

• The Uncle vs. The Bank

• The Trust Protector

• Private Trust Companies (PTC)

• Trustee Decision Tree

• Trustee Selection Criteria

3.4 Decanting and Flexibility: Future-Proofing the Estate

• Fixing Broken Trusts: Decanting

• Powers of Appointment

• Jurisdictional Arbitrage

• Future-Proofing Checklist

IV. Advanced Tax Efficiency – Preserving the Corpus

4.1 The Estate Freeze: Locking in Value and Shifting Growth

• The Compounding Problem

• Intentionally Defective Grantor Trusts (IDGTs)

• GRATs (Grantor Retained Annuity Trusts)

• Valuation Discounts

• Writer’s Checklist: Structuring the Freeze

4.2 Leveraging Life Insurance within the Trust Structure

• The Multi-Dimensional Asset

• Irrevocable Life Insurance Trusts (ILITs)

• Premium Financing

• Dynasty Insurance

• Writer’s Action List

4.3 Charitable Planning as a Wealth Preservation Tool

• Capital Architecture

• CLATs (Charitable Lead Annuity Trusts)

• CRUTs (Charitable Remainder Unitrusts)

• Private Foundations vs. Donor Advised Funds

• Writer’s Checklist

4.4 Income Tax Planning for Trusts

• Compressed Tax Brackets

• Distributable Net Income (DNI)

• Situs Selection

• Writer’s Action List

V. Asset Protection and Modern Asset Classes

5.1 The Ironclad Shield: Domestic Asset Protection Trusts (DAPTs)

• Creditor Protection: The Self-Settled Revolution

• The "Fraudulent Transfer" Risk

• Hybrid Bridge Trusts

• Writer’s Call-Out Box

5.2 Protecting the Bloodline: Divorce and Remarriage

• The "Floating Spouse" Clause

• Prenuptial Integration

• Ousting the Ex

• Writer’s Checklist

5.3 Managing Modern Assets: Crypto, Art, and Intellectual Property

• Digital Asset Succession

• Art and Collectibles

• Intellectual Property Rights

• Writer’s Action Box

5.4 The Family Business: Succession vs. Exit

• Voting vs. Non-Voting Stock

• Buy-Sell Agreements

• The "Phantom Stock" Solution

• Writer’s Design Checklist

VI. Execution and Evolution – The Long Game

6.1 The Family Office: Centralizing the Strategy

• When to Build vs. Rent

• The Virtual Family Office (VFO)

• Integrated Reporting

• Writer’s Call-Out Box

6.2 Philanthropy as the Family Glue

• Shared Values in Action

• Strategic Giving

• Legacy Projects

• Writer’s Checklist

6.3 Adapting to Legislative Risks: The Sunset Provisions

• The 2026 Sunset

• Political Risk Management

• Global Mobility

• Writer’s Checklist

6.4 Conclusion: The Infinite Game

• The Annual Stress Test

• The Letter of Wishes

• Final Thoughts

Baked with love,

Anna Eisenberg ❤️