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You’ve heard the proverb.

"From shirtsleeves to shirtsleeves in three generations."

The first generation builds the wealth. The second stewards it. The third consumes it.

It sounds like a myth, but the data is brutal.

70% of wealthy families lose their fortune by the second generation.

By the third generation, 90% of it is gone.

Why?

It’s not usually bad investment advice or a market crash.

It’s the family itself.

It’s the "trust fund" psychology that turns heirs into spenders instead of owners.

But there is a way to stop the bleeding. It’s not a product you buy from a broker. It’s a structure you build yourself.

We call it the MultiGen Family Bank.

Here is the blueprint.

The Threat: Why Money Evaporates We look at the math. Inflation, taxes, and a growing family tree attack your principal from all sides. We compare the Vanderbilts (who lost it all) to the Rothschilds (who kept it). We also explain why "economic outpatient care"—giving cash to adult kids—actually hurts their net worth. [Read Section 1: The Threat – Confronting the Cycle]

The Mechanics: Keeping the IRS Happy You can’t just write a check and call it a loan. The IRS will see a gift and hit you with a 40% tax. We explain the "Arm's Length" standard. You have to act like a real bank. We also cover the "Applicable Federal Rate" (AFR)—the magic number that lets you lend to family cheaper than any bank, without breaking the law. [Read Section 2: The Mechanics – Structuring Loans]

The Products: Funding Ambition, Not Lifestyle What should the bank fund? A house? Yes. A business? Maybe. A depreciating luxury car? Never. We break down the "No-Go" list. We also look at how to structure a "Family Mortgage" to get your kids out of the rent trap and into equity, protecting the asset with prenups and liens. [Read Section 3: Product Lines – Financing Ambition]

The Governance: Saying "No" Without a Fight If Mom and Dad make every decision, Thanksgiving gets awkward. You need a Credit Committee. We explain how to depersonalize the rejection, why you need to report to credit bureaus (yes, really), and the painful but necessary protocols for what happens when a family member defaults. [Read Section 4: Governance – Managing the Human Element]

The Strategy: The Interest Rate Arbitrage Why let a commercial bank profit from your family’s debt? When you lend internally, the interest stays in the family pot. We dive into the advanced tactics: Intentionally Defective Grantor Trusts (IDGTs), strategic forgiveness using the annual gift exclusion ($19k/year), and how to use the bank as a shield against divorce and creditors. [Read Section 5: Advanced Wealth Strategy]

The Legacy: It’s Not Just About ROI Capital without character destroys families. You need an educational curriculum before you hand over the checkbook. We outline the "Return on Family" metric and how to turn passive beneficiaries into active stewards. [Read Section 6: The Cultural Legacy]

This isn’t just about saving money. It’s about saving the family.

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Table of Contents

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Section 1: The Threat – Confronting the "Shirtless to Shirtless" Cycle

1.1 The Mathematics of Wealth Erosion: Why 70% of Wealth Vanishes

• The "Three Generation Rule"

• The Dilution Effect

• Dynastic Case Studies (Vanderbilt vs. Rothschild)

1.2 The Psychology of the "Gift": How Free Capital Destroys Drive

• The "Trust Fund Baby" Syndrome

• Economic Outpatient Care (EOC)

• Safety Nets vs. Hammocks

1.3 The Family Bank Concept: Capital with Consequences

• Defining the Entity

• The Mindset Shift

• The Core Philosophy

1.4 The Macro Argument: Why This Strategy is Critical Now

• The Interest Rate Environment

• Barriers to Entry

• Regulatory Arbitrage

Section 2: The Mechanics – Structuring Loans to Satisfy the IRS

2.1 The "Arm’s Length" Standard: Avoiding the Gift Tax Trap

• IRS Legitimacy Tests (The Miller Factors)

• Intent to Repay

• Consequences of Laxity

2.2 Mastering the AFR (Applicable Federal Rate)

• Section 7520 Explained

• Term Selection Strategy

• The Spread Opportunity

2.3 Documentation and Collateral: Formalizing the Deal

• The Promissory Note

• Securing the Loan

• Professionalizing the Process

2.4 Funding the Bank: Where Does the Capital Live?

• Entity Structure (FLP, LLC, FIC)

• Trust-Based Lending

• Capital Sourcing

Section 3: Product Lines – Financing Ambition, Not Lifestyle

3.1 The Family Mortgage: Breaking the Rent Trap

• Structure Variations

• Shared Equity Agreements

• Asset Protection Requirements

3.2 Venture Capital: Fueling Entrepreneurship

• Underwriting the Founder

• Debt vs. Equity

• Milestone-Based Tranches

3.3 Investing in Human Capital: Education and Bridge Loans

• Student Debt Refinancing

• Professional Buy-Ins

• "Bridge to Liquidity"

3.4 The "No-Go" List: What the Bank Does Not Fund

• Consumption Restrictions

• The "Bad Behavior" Clause

• Speculative Trading

Section 4: Governance – Managing the Human Element

4.1 The Credit Committee: Who Approves the Loan?

• The Independence Factor

• Objective Criteria

• Depersonalizing Rejection

4.2 Servicing and Repayment: The Discipline of Collection

• Automation is Key

• Credit Bureau Reporting

• Annual Audits

4.3 Handling Default: When the Borrower Can’t Pay

• The Workout Plan

• Enforcement Protocols

• Inheritance Offset

4.4 Transparency vs. Privacy: Information Flow

• Sibling Visibility

• Managing Jealousy

• Stakeholder Reporting

Section 5: Advanced Wealth Strategy – Tax & Estate Efficiency

5.1 The Interest Spread: Keeping Wealth in the Family

• Circular Cash Flow

• Social Impact Funding

• Compounding Velocity

5.2 Strategic Forgiveness and Annual Exclusions

• Gift Tax Efficiency

• Incentive Forgiveness

• COD (Cancellation of Debt) Income Warning

5.3 Sale to an Intentionally Defective Grantor Trust (IDGT)

• The "Supercharged" Strategy

• The "Burn" Technique

• Estate Freezing

5.4 Asset Protection: The Bank as a Shield

• Divorce Defense

• Creditor Shielding

• Bankruptcy Standing

Section 6: The Cultural Legacy – Sustainability & Outlook

6.1 Educational Curriculum: The Price of Admission

• Financial Literacy Prerequisites

• The Junior Board

• Mentorship Pairings

6.2 Defining Success: It’s Not Just ROI

• Return on Family (ROF)

• Success Tracking

• Unity Metrics

6.3 Scaling Up: From Bank to Family Office

• Syndication

• The Single Family Office Integration

• Institutionalization

6.4 Concluding Thoughts: Beyond the Balance Sheet

• The 100-Year Vision

• The Character Argument

• Call to Action

Baked with love,

Anna Eisenberg ❤️